What It’s Really Like to Go to a Sex Party

It might look a little different than you think.

Caitlin Jill Anders
Sexography
Published in
6 min readFeb 11, 2021

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Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash

When I was getting ready to go to my very first sex party in October 2018, I had absolutely no idea what to expect. A guy I’d just started seeing asked if I wanted to be his date since his primary partner couldn’t go. It was only our third date, and honestly, I couldn't think of a better activity. I was so…

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Caitlin Jill Anders
Sexography

Queer, polyam, neurodivergent Los Angeles based writer with a lot of stories to tell. I enjoy being myself and talking about sex.